As I know normally the eldest kid will be the commander in the house, mean she will order/instruct the younger sis or bro to do thing for them. This exactly happen to Wien now. She likes to bully her sister by commanding her doing things too, besides fighting for toys with her. Lucky less fighting for toys now.
Most of time when we hear she send “instruction” to her sister, we will stop her and lecture her, ask her to do it herself. Last time she even asks her sister to help her keep the toys after played. Her sister sometimes will help her but sometimes will ignore her instruction too. Now she still do that but if we at home and saw the incident, for sure she got no chance to bully her sister that way. We will insist she do it all by her own.
Oh ya, she not only a commander in the house. She is a coward girl too. Hahaha…each time got new things or new stuff, she will ask her sister to try first, if ok, then only she will try it. If their Ma Ma wants to show them insect or small animals, she will ask her sister walk in front of her and she is hiding behind her. Lyon is not so brave girl too, but Wien will push her from back and ask her walk first. See, how coward she is. Size bigger only but like to treat her sister that way. *sigh*
Wah.. big jie jie like big boss. hahaha
LOL. Damn chicken wei.
yeah, chicken little satu!
same like SQ lor…always ask her sis go to try 1st..if her sis no go she also won’t go for it..haii
haha, if the other way round will big sis offer good things to younger sis first or keep a good sharing among themselve..?
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Haha…chicken commander
haha sounds like my girl oso
No wor, Emily is the commander in my family